The Lunch Date: Giving yourself to your Bull

You’ve done all your preparations, your slim, trim and wanting him; now is the time to slow down, let go and most importantly enjoy yourself. This is the very presuppose of your lifestyle choice so take a long deep breath and hold onto your hat sister, It’s going to be fantastic!

For your lunch date you’ll want to defer to the tastes and comfort level of your Bull. Keep in mind that your Bull may be a married man so discretion will be the key. Chose or suggest a place that’s located in a unpopular part of your town or in another town entirely. To many lunch dates and first meetings have been ruined by coworkers or family members happening upon Bulls wives and husbands so don’t let that happen to you. Now that your Bull has selected a time and place, it is now your husband/boyfriends responsibility to make all the reservation and arrangements. If your husband is anything like mine, he will absolutely relish this opportunity to become involved in the beginning sections of your service to your future Bull.

Choosing your outfit will be a difficult decision for your first date. Remember, this will be the first time your Bull will see you in person so you want to make a great first impression. Since you will be meeting in public with your husband in tow, I would suggest a professional business outfit for both you and your husband or boyfriend. Sure, you’ll want to keep your outfit choice sexy and well fitting to show off your attributes but you’ll also need to keep the other patrons and staff of the restaurant aloof to your intentions. Be sure to show plenty of your body but in a restrained manner and selection. Your first instinct should be to want your Bulls hands all over your body immediately but remember, this is your first meeting, and hopefully you’ll have plenty of time to give your body to your Bull fully and often.

Upon arriving at the restaurant, you’ll need to go over the basic ground rules for your husband. By no means should your husband have his hands on your body when your Bull makes his entrance. Your husband is the facilitator in this situation and its your job to remind him if he over steps the bounds. Your husband should escort you to the table and sit on the outside. When your bull makes his appearance your husband will need to stand, walk over to your Bull and greet him in the view of the staff and any other patrons. This will set the tone for your entire lunch date in the minds of the other people in the surrounding area. The wont think you’re a submissive white female meeting her new sexual dominant male, instead they’ll see old friends meeting for lunch and that’s what you want.

Now that everyone has greeted and began ordering lunch, its now time to show your Bull your interest and his place within your new and wonderful relationship. Be sure to ask intriguing and seductive question of your Bull, he’ll enjoy your interest. While physical touching can bee an alarming signal to others in your area keep it to a minimum. This having been said, if you can attempt it in a discreet fashion and out of view, feel free to fondle your bull with your feet and seductively express your sexual interest. You want him leaving this table with a severe need to take you, so use all of your charms and let yourself be flirty and sexy.

At this point you should be well aware of your inherit desire for your Bull and his desire for you. Now is the time for all three of you to exit the restaurant and for your husband to settle the bill. Upon leaving the restaurant, unclasp your hand from your husband or boyfriend, and alert him to the fact that you’ll be riding with your Bull. Remember, this is a somewhat bittersweet moment for your husband or boyfriend so now it would be a great time to tell him how much you love him and how grateful you are for his acceptance. Immediately after telling your husband this, offer your hand to your bull and let him escort you to his vehicle. Your transition from a curious wife to a owned woman is complete. No longer are you just a curious passer by, you are now the interest of your Bull and your focus must be toward him.

Once inside the car, take time to admire your Bull and tell him exactly what your thinking. Thank your Bull for his time and patience and let him know how excited you are for your first encounter. If your Bull is like many others, at this point he will draw you near him and begin kissing you. This is only natural. You’re here now, no more work needs to be done. Enjoy the moment. While a car isn’t the most suitable place for exploring your Bulls body, pay special attention to your Bulls manhood and lower body. Allow your new Bull access to your entire body. While you might be able to suggest that he drive someplace more secluded, don’t draw away from your Bull at any time. While your Bull is driving is the perfect opportunity to receive his manhood orally. Your no doubt going to be impressed by its size and girth and that’s perfectly normal. In fact I’ve found that a Bull loves to hear a woman remark about his penis size and beauty (all men do) so feel free to tell your bull exactly what your thinking.

While I don’t suggest sexual relations take place at this moment the deciding vote on this issue belongs to your Bull. Remember, this is not your husband! Your Bull gets what your Bull wants so be sure to accommodate him. If sex is off the table for the moment now is the time to set up your first date with your Bull. You should be considerate of his timeline and make yourself available to his timeframe. While you may feel the overriding urge to sleep with your Bull immediately I suggest holding off until your actual date. A Hotel room will allow you and your Bull much greater amounts of time and privacy to explore each others body, serve your bull and allow him access to all the pleasures you have to give.

The Lunch Date: Giving yourself to your Bull

You’ve done all your preparations, your slim, trim and wanting him; now is the time to slow down, let go and most importantly enjoy yourself. This is the very presuppose of your lifestyle choice so take a long deep breath and hold onto your hat sister, It’s going to be fantastic!

For your lunch date you’ll want to defer to the tastes and comfort level of your Bull. Keep in mind that your Bull may be a married man so discretion will be the key. Chose or suggest a place that’s located in a unpopular part of your town or in another town entirely. To many lunch dates and first meetings have been ruined by coworkers or family members happening upon Bulls wives and husbands so don’t let that happen to you. Now that your Bull has selected a time and place, it is now your husband/boyfriends responsibility to make all the reservation and arrangements. If your husband is anything like mine, he will absolutely relish this opportunity to become involved in the beginning sections of your service to your future Bull.

Choosing your outfit will be a difficult decision for your first date. Remember, this will be the first time your Bull will see you in person so you want to make a great first impression. Since you will be meeting in public with your husband in tow, I would suggest a professional business outfit for both you and your husband or boyfriend. Sure, you’ll want to keep your outfit choice sexy and well fitting to show off your attributes but you’ll also need to keep the other patrons and staff of the restaurant aloof to your intentions. Be sure to show plenty of your body but in a restrained manner and selection. Your first instinct should be to want your Bulls hands all over your body immediately but remember, this is your first meeting, and hopefully you’ll have plenty of time to give your body to your Bull fully and often.

Upon arriving at the restaurant, you’ll need to go over the basic ground rules for your husband. By no means should your husband have his hands on your body when your Bull makes his entrance. Your husband is the facilitator in this situation and its your job to remind him if he over steps the bounds. Your husband should escort you to the table and sit on the outside. When your bull makes his appearance your husband will need to stand, walk over to your Bull and greet him in the view of the staff and any other patrons. This will set the tone for your entire lunch date in the minds of the other people in the surrounding area. The wont think you’re a submissive white female meeting her new sexual dominant male, instead they’ll see old friends meeting for lunch and that’s what you want.

Now that everyone has greeted and began ordering lunch, its now time to show your Bull your interest and his place within your new and wonderful relationship. Be sure to ask intriguing and seductive question of your Bull, he’ll enjoy your interest. While physical touching can bee an alarming signal to others in your area keep it to a minimum. This having been said, if you can attempt it in a discreet fashion and out of view, feel free to fondle your bull with your feet and seductively express your sexual interest. You want him leaving this table with a severe need to take you, so use all of your charms and let yourself be flirty and sexy.

At this point you should be well aware of your inherit desire for your Bull and his desire for you. Now is the time for all three of you to exit the restaurant and for your husband to settle the bill. Upon leaving the restaurant, unclasp your hand from your husband or boyfriend, and alert him to the fact that you’ll be riding with your Bull. Remember, this is a somewhat bittersweet moment for your husband or boyfriend so now it would be a great time to tell him how much you love him and how grateful you are for his acceptance. Immediately after telling your husband this, offer your hand to your bull and let him escort you to his vehicle. Your transition from a curious wife to a owned woman is complete. No longer are you just a curious passer by, you are now the interest of your Bull and your focus must be toward him.

Once inside the car, take time to admire your Bull and tell him exactly what your thinking. Thank your Bull for his time and patience and let him know how excited you are for your first encounter. If your Bull is like many others, at this point he will draw you near him and begin kissing you. This is only natural. You’re here now, no more work needs to be done. Enjoy the moment. While a car isn’t the most suitable place for exploring your Bulls body, pay special attention to your Bulls manhood and lower body. Allow your new Bull access to your entire body. While you might be able to suggest that he drive someplace more secluded, don’t draw away from your Bull at any time. While your Bull is driving is the perfect opportunity to receive his manhood orally. Your no doubt going to be impressed by its size and girth and that’s perfectly normal. In fact I’ve found that a Bull loves to hear a woman remark about his penis size and beauty (all men do) so feel free to tell your bull exactly what your thinking.

While I don’t suggest sexual relations take place at this moment the deciding vote on this issue belongs to your Bull. Remember, this is not your husband! Your Bull gets what your Bull wants so be sure to accommodate him. If sex is off the table for the moment now is the time to set up your first date with your Bull. You should be considerate of his timeline and make yourself available to his timeframe. While you may feel the overriding urge to sleep with your Bull immediately I suggest holding off until your actual date. A Hotel room will allow you and your Bull much greater amounts of time and privacy to explore each others body, serve your bull and allow him access to all the pleasures you have to give.

Getting started: Preparations.

Now its time to prepare…..

Before you begin Pulling, that is, searching and dating Bulls, you will first need to make some changes in your own life to accommodate your new lifestyle. Your prospective Bulls will want you to be at your most desirable and attractive and beginning a regime of beauty upkeep, as well as scheduling time for your own needs will be paramount. As is often the case, your husband or boyfriend will most likely help you make these changes and will actually become enthralled in providing you the monetary needs and time needed to accomplish these tasks. Don’t be afraid to ask for his assistance, he will probably enjoy it immensely.

Where to start:

Join a Gym: Regardless of your body type or beginning weight, you will want to join your local gymnasium and begin working out frequently. Not only will this help you become more desirable, tone your body and keep you healthy, the gym is an excellent place to find black men. Black men are very aware of they’re bodies and tend to work out three or four days a week, you should too. I personally have found two Bulls at my local gym and find the gym to be an easy going and neutral place to meet and Pull attention.


Hair care, Nails and Skin: Your next investment of time and money would be well spent at your local salon and nail center. Your starting a new lifestyle, so you should start your new adventure with a new look. Find a complimentary hair style that’s updated and suits your needs and personal choice. Many women who are just starting out attempt to get a hair style that looks more urban or “black” I would suggest not doing this. Your prospective bull wants to see you as a White woman, not a white woman who has “black” or urban hair styles. You’ll actually find that more Bulls will give you they’re attention if you have a more subtle and yet provocative hair style. This can also be said for your finger and toenail care. Shy away from busy nail care. Keep it simple but professionally kept.


That hair down there: This is a key issue before and even after you’ve started dating Bulls. As your Bull, he will give you direction as how he wants you to look while naked, follow his direction. Your Bull may or may not want you to shave your body but you should be willing to do so if directed. If you don’t yet have a Bull, its wise to remove all hair while your dating. Your prospective Bull will want you soft and smooth and generally attractive in all ways. It’s your responsibility to meets his desires.


Lets go shopping!: Your next step in embracing your new lifestyle is to find new and attractive clothes. Not only will this help you attract your prospective Bulls but it will also give you the added confidence you’ll need while searching and dating. I would suggest first, getting a good, form fitting exercise outfit for your new gym membership. Like I stated before, the gym is a great place not only to get tone and fit but also finding and hopefully flirting with a few black men so you’ll want to look your best. Next, look for slim fitting nighttime outfits that will show off your body and can be worn at various places such as dance clubs and for going out to dinner. Remember, you’re a wonderful spectacle and your Bull will want to show you off. I would suggest limiting the amount of pants suits or jeans that you wear for your bull. Instead go will figure hugging dresses that show off your body and make you feel sexy. These will not only entice your Bull, it will also make you feel more like the beautiful woman you are. Again, I suggest staying away from more urban or hip-hop clothing choices. Your bull wants to see a white woman on his arm not some false representation of a bad stereotype. Go for Class, go for Style and go for Sexy!


Lingerie: For your husband the best lingerie should be your body, for your Bull you should be prepared! The best thing to keep in mind when deciding what lingerie to purchase is that your Bull is NOT your husband. Your prospective bull(s) will have a varied taste when it comes to how he wants you to present yourself to him. Some will want complex garter belts, leather corsets and hosiery, while others will just want your natural state. Until you can tune into what your Bull desires though, it’s best to go with a wide variety. I would suggest that you use this opportunity to experiment with the different combinations and styles of sexy, deviant and classic lingerie on the market. The important thing to remember is that when your wearing these alluring garments, your telling your Bull that you want him and want him to be happy. The wrong choice in garments can make for an uncomfortable and awkward experience, the right choice can bring you and your Bull to heights of sexual fulfillment you’ve never experienced before. I would suggest having two pairings of black and white thigh-high stockings, garter belts for each, sexy bedroom shoes, sexy and form fitting bra and panty sets, camisoles of various colors as well as any experimental choices you may prefer. It is also good to note that you should place these items away from your husband or boyfriends view and access. These items are to be shared between you and your Bull and are not for him.


Condoms and birth control: While your first lunch date in which your husband/boyfriend will attend (that I’ll get into later) shouldn’t end in any kind of sexual activity beyond touching and caressing, your first date with your Bull alone, definitely will. You should be prepared for providing yourself to your bull and have already been on or have condoms with you in expectation of this. Ultimately, it is your Bulls decision whether or not he chooses to use a condom but you should be on birth control four months prior to dating. In time your bull may decide to have you stop taking your birth control (We’ll get to that later also) but until that time you should operate under the assumption that he doesn’t want you to have children.

Will black men really desire me?

The easy answer to this is simply yes. All men are horny little devils and so are black men. The difference is that a black man that is within our lifestyle (also known as a Bull) isn’t simply there for some sort of random swinger sex encounter. He has come into this lifestyle for similar reasons as you have. He isn’t looking simply for a woman….he wants a white woman and everything she encompasses.

As modern white women, we are often told (by our mothers in my case) that men are not unlike dogs. There are good breeds of dogs, she would say; and then there are bad breeds. The bad breeds my mother was speaking of, if I’m honest, were black men. Another point of note is that in our modern times we have lost our sense of uniqueness that we as white women envelope and hold. Due to the feminist movements and workplace PC protocols, we have had our traditional standing as the pinnacles of beauty and desire that we once held taken from us. White men, generally speaking, view white women with quite a bit of apprehension and confusion. It’s sadly left them with a sense that desiring us sexually is somehow wrong and they fear having one of us “blow up” if they want to flirt with us or inquire about sex…black men don’t have this problem.


The black men you’ll find within our lifestyle not only will treat you wonderfully, they will also desire you constantly. For ages and even today, we are the very standard for sexuality and beauty; black men are the new standard for male sexuality and strength. It’s our lifestyle that epitomizes this concept best.

The reason why.

Now that you have made your decision to join our wonderful lifestyle, you’ll need to take some time to prepare yourself. Start by asking yourself some very real and honest questions; are you looking for a one time situation? Do you want a romance? Or do you want the full lifestyle and everything that encompasses? If the latter is what you seek, you and your husband/boyfriend have a lot of preparation to do.

Most white women like you and myself have always had a lingering interest in black men. We see them on TV or on the street; if your lucky you’ve experienced the black mans ease at the art of flirtation and felt what it is like to be wanted by them and more importantly, your want to be wanted by them. Generally speaking, black men are more athletic, taller, and yes, some are even more well endowed than their white counterparts. These are all wonderful things about black men but they tend to be generalities for online sex fetish sites.

Being simply interested in an exotic and exhilarating sexual experience is a great start; but I think you’ll quickly find that the root reason for your lust, and the lifestyle we’ve chosen, is our natural drive to be with, and make ourselves sexually available to, the strongest man we encounter. This idea while unpopular in our modern society, is the single most offered reasoning I’ve encountered while speaking with other women within the lifestyle. This is a natural and basic drive that all women have and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it. In fact, your choice to enter into our lifestyle shows a great depth maturity and self analysis, and while many of us choose to keep our lifestyle out of the public sphere, your choice to take your rightful place and give yourself to a black male is a beautiful and natural thing so go for it with gusto!

Your first step.

You my dear…. are about to embark upon a wonderful and exhilarating thrill ride into the world of interracial sex and dating. Regardless of what your situation is, where you come from or who you are; you and millions of other white women like you (me too!) are throwing off the shackles of tradition in search of sexual and personal fulfillment,…and I am extremely happy to have you in the sisterhood and our lifestyle.

I can only relate to the thoughts and apprehension you must be feeling at this moment. Much like myself years ago, you have probably given this a tremendous amount of thought and fantasized about what your new lifestyle will be like. The only thing I can assure you of is that if you take your new lifestyle choice lightly, or don’t prepare yourself correctly you’ll most likely find disappointment. On the other hand, if you are honest with yourself, your husband or boyfriend, you will achieve that which millions of women like you are grateful for everyday…contentment.