Getting started: Preparations.

Now its time to prepare…..

Before you begin Pulling, that is, searching and dating Bulls, you will first need to make some changes in your own life to accommodate your new lifestyle. Your prospective Bulls will want you to be at your most desirable and attractive and beginning a regime of beauty upkeep, as well as scheduling time for your own needs will be paramount. As is often the case, your husband or boyfriend will most likely help you make these changes and will actually become enthralled in providing you the monetary needs and time needed to accomplish these tasks. Don’t be afraid to ask for his assistance, he will probably enjoy it immensely.

Where to start:

Join a Gym: Regardless of your body type or beginning weight, you will want to join your local gymnasium and begin working out frequently. Not only will this help you become more desirable, tone your body and keep you healthy, the gym is an excellent place to find black men. Black men are very aware of they’re bodies and tend to work out three or four days a week, you should too. I personally have found two Bulls at my local gym and find the gym to be an easy going and neutral place to meet and Pull attention.


Hair care, Nails and Skin: Your next investment of time and money would be well spent at your local salon and nail center. Your starting a new lifestyle, so you should start your new adventure with a new look. Find a complimentary hair style that’s updated and suits your needs and personal choice. Many women who are just starting out attempt to get a hair style that looks more urban or “black” I would suggest not doing this. Your prospective bull wants to see you as a White woman, not a white woman who has “black” or urban hair styles. You’ll actually find that more Bulls will give you they’re attention if you have a more subtle and yet provocative hair style. This can also be said for your finger and toenail care. Shy away from busy nail care. Keep it simple but professionally kept.


That hair down there: This is a key issue before and even after you’ve started dating Bulls. As your Bull, he will give you direction as how he wants you to look while naked, follow his direction. Your Bull may or may not want you to shave your body but you should be willing to do so if directed. If you don’t yet have a Bull, its wise to remove all hair while your dating. Your prospective Bull will want you soft and smooth and generally attractive in all ways. It’s your responsibility to meets his desires.


Lets go shopping!: Your next step in embracing your new lifestyle is to find new and attractive clothes. Not only will this help you attract your prospective Bulls but it will also give you the added confidence you’ll need while searching and dating. I would suggest first, getting a good, form fitting exercise outfit for your new gym membership. Like I stated before, the gym is a great place not only to get tone and fit but also finding and hopefully flirting with a few black men so you’ll want to look your best. Next, look for slim fitting nighttime outfits that will show off your body and can be worn at various places such as dance clubs and for going out to dinner. Remember, you’re a wonderful spectacle and your Bull will want to show you off. I would suggest limiting the amount of pants suits or jeans that you wear for your bull. Instead go will figure hugging dresses that show off your body and make you feel sexy. These will not only entice your Bull, it will also make you feel more like the beautiful woman you are. Again, I suggest staying away from more urban or hip-hop clothing choices. Your bull wants to see a white woman on his arm not some false representation of a bad stereotype. Go for Class, go for Style and go for Sexy!


Lingerie: For your husband the best lingerie should be your body, for your Bull you should be prepared! The best thing to keep in mind when deciding what lingerie to purchase is that your Bull is NOT your husband. Your prospective bull(s) will have a varied taste when it comes to how he wants you to present yourself to him. Some will want complex garter belts, leather corsets and hosiery, while others will just want your natural state. Until you can tune into what your Bull desires though, it’s best to go with a wide variety. I would suggest that you use this opportunity to experiment with the different combinations and styles of sexy, deviant and classic lingerie on the market. The important thing to remember is that when your wearing these alluring garments, your telling your Bull that you want him and want him to be happy. The wrong choice in garments can make for an uncomfortable and awkward experience, the right choice can bring you and your Bull to heights of sexual fulfillment you’ve never experienced before. I would suggest having two pairings of black and white thigh-high stockings, garter belts for each, sexy bedroom shoes, sexy and form fitting bra and panty sets, camisoles of various colors as well as any experimental choices you may prefer. It is also good to note that you should place these items away from your husband or boyfriends view and access. These items are to be shared between you and your Bull and are not for him.


Condoms and birth control: While your first lunch date in which your husband/boyfriend will attend (that I’ll get into later) shouldn’t end in any kind of sexual activity beyond touching and caressing, your first date with your Bull alone, definitely will. You should be prepared for providing yourself to your bull and have already been on or have condoms with you in expectation of this. Ultimately, it is your Bulls decision whether or not he chooses to use a condom but you should be on birth control four months prior to dating. In time your bull may decide to have you stop taking your birth control (We’ll get to that later also) but until that time you should operate under the assumption that he doesn’t want you to have children.

Will black men really desire me?

The easy answer to this is simply yes. All men are horny little devils and so are black men. The difference is that a black man that is within our lifestyle (also known as a Bull) isn’t simply there for some sort of random swinger sex encounter. He has come into this lifestyle for similar reasons as you have. He isn’t looking simply for a woman….he wants a white woman and everything she encompasses.

As modern white women, we are often told (by our mothers in my case) that men are not unlike dogs. There are good breeds of dogs, she would say; and then there are bad breeds. The bad breeds my mother was speaking of, if I’m honest, were black men. Another point of note is that in our modern times we have lost our sense of uniqueness that we as white women envelope and hold. Due to the feminist movements and workplace PC protocols, we have had our traditional standing as the pinnacles of beauty and desire that we once held taken from us. White men, generally speaking, view white women with quite a bit of apprehension and confusion. It’s sadly left them with a sense that desiring us sexually is somehow wrong and they fear having one of us “blow up” if they want to flirt with us or inquire about sex…black men don’t have this problem.


The black men you’ll find within our lifestyle not only will treat you wonderfully, they will also desire you constantly. For ages and even today, we are the very standard for sexuality and beauty; black men are the new standard for male sexuality and strength. It’s our lifestyle that epitomizes this concept best.

The reason why.

Now that you have made your decision to join our wonderful lifestyle, you’ll need to take some time to prepare yourself. Start by asking yourself some very real and honest questions; are you looking for a one time situation? Do you want a romance? Or do you want the full lifestyle and everything that encompasses? If the latter is what you seek, you and your husband/boyfriend have a lot of preparation to do.

Most white women like you and myself have always had a lingering interest in black men. We see them on TV or on the street; if your lucky you’ve experienced the black mans ease at the art of flirtation and felt what it is like to be wanted by them and more importantly, your want to be wanted by them. Generally speaking, black men are more athletic, taller, and yes, some are even more well endowed than their white counterparts. These are all wonderful things about black men but they tend to be generalities for online sex fetish sites.

Being simply interested in an exotic and exhilarating sexual experience is a great start; but I think you’ll quickly find that the root reason for your lust, and the lifestyle we’ve chosen, is our natural drive to be with, and make ourselves sexually available to, the strongest man we encounter. This idea while unpopular in our modern society, is the single most offered reasoning I’ve encountered while speaking with other women within the lifestyle. This is a natural and basic drive that all women have and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it. In fact, your choice to enter into our lifestyle shows a great depth maturity and self analysis, and while many of us choose to keep our lifestyle out of the public sphere, your choice to take your rightful place and give yourself to a black male is a beautiful and natural thing so go for it with gusto!

Your first step.

You my dear…. are about to embark upon a wonderful and exhilarating thrill ride into the world of interracial sex and dating. Regardless of what your situation is, where you come from or who you are; you and millions of other white women like you (me too!) are throwing off the shackles of tradition in search of sexual and personal fulfillment,…and I am extremely happy to have you in the sisterhood and our lifestyle.

I can only relate to the thoughts and apprehension you must be feeling at this moment. Much like myself years ago, you have probably given this a tremendous amount of thought and fantasized about what your new lifestyle will be like. The only thing I can assure you of is that if you take your new lifestyle choice lightly, or don’t prepare yourself correctly you’ll most likely find disappointment. On the other hand, if you are honest with yourself, your husband or boyfriend, you will achieve that which millions of women like you are grateful for everyday…contentment.